My name is Matthew, a few days be born and I can finally hug my mom and my dad. They had wanted for so long that have a baby, but unfortunately did not come, the days passed, months, years later. Attempts after failed attempts, my mother became increasingly unhappy. But in the end I came. One evening my father, speaking softly and stroking the belly of the mother, told me their story, all the vicissitudes and the way they have done to get a. ... me. When after a few years they realized that it could not have children, have turned to many doctors, have taken many drugs, talked to many doctors, especially one that is called a psychologist, I think. Every Tuesday we went to this man and tried to understand what problems there were between them, as if there must be when children are not born. They stopped going, instead of benefit, returning home more and more anxious, unhappy, and blamed their misery. My dad and my mammas so fond of and one evening, after yet another fight, they embraced tightly and have decided not to go there anymore. Months passed and the mother is more sad, do not change anything, you feel a sadness within him that takes away the strength, that does not make you get out of bed. They say that this is an illness, invisible, that hurts, that is not seen on the skin, the patch is not needed, lies in the hearts and minds of people. This disease does believe some women are not capable of being a mother, do not deserve it, so of being punished for something they have done. Dad noticed it, he embraced the sweet words whispered to her ear, day after day, and smiled again. They started to do the treatment in hospital for fertiilità , but to no avail. Then, the Berlusconi government has made a law, 40, on artificial insemination and things were not made well, they tried to stop it after five years, but the hostility of the church and the political right, have prevented the change. The law closes many doors, but also is a danger to the mother's life: three embryos implanted at the same time, the danger of giving birth triplets, no pre-implantation diagnosis. A father would not do this thing, risking their lives .... there must necessarily be another solution!. Television, for once, helps people: on the news talk of Barcelona's center for the treatment of infertility. Bacellona and far, to get the plane there violets, the property, money, many, for treatment. Where to find them? The salary of an employee and a part-time are not enough, apply for a loan to the bank? Yes, but what guarantees can give? The machine they have to pay in installments, no, only the house remains, the fruit of many years of sacrifice, the only thing you really have. Think about it for days, finally decides to ask for a loan, mortgage the house. They leave for Barcelona, \u200b\u200b6000 € only treatment days waiting, frustration, until you get the news, my mother expected me .... Arrrivando I am, finally.
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